Compare but don't compete

Comparison drives change. Others can provide inspiration , so you aspire to improve.

Use others for inspiration and motivation.

Look at those who did succeed and be inspired. Also learn what they are doing differently to you that seems to be working and may be applicable in your plan.

But don't compete. Competing can detract on focusing on your game.

You are playing your own game. Set your own goals according to your aims, and your situation.